The Views from Where I’ve Been.

A few days ago, I landed in Bahrain, setting foot in my 75th country.  When I think back to who I was the very first time I traveled to a country outside of the US to today, I am a completely different person.  Of course, the 27 years that have passed has something to do with it, but time is not the only thing that has changed me, travel has also changed me.  I went from a small-town kid who was scared to get on an airplane back in 1996, to a confident solo traveler, visiting nearly 50 countries on my own.

I have made it a personal goal in my life to do more of what I enjoy, and what I enjoy is seeing the world. Many people aren’t into counting countries, but for me, it’s a way to motivate myself to visit somewhere I wouldn’t normally consider, add those extra days onto a work trip, or to step foot on an entirely new continent.

I decided to go through and make a note about each country I have visited so far, mostly to prove to myself that all the memories I have collected from across the world were worth the time away and money I spent getting there. As I started, I was shocked how quickly I could recall details from my travels – from local experiences and funny antidotes to the food I still remember and dream about in my sleep. As the memories came flooding back, I realized then and there that it was all worth it. Every moment spent planning an epic adventure, to only have it rain the entire trip, every plane ride, dollar spent, annoyance of a cancelled flight, laughs with best friends, sharing an unforgettable experience with someone you love, everything. 

The memories I can recall below stay with me even today, so my final words of wisdom – take the trip, it’s always worth it.

Oh, and the below is all text, so grab some coffee and get your reading glasses ready…. and if you want to see photos of all my travels, check out my IG – @coriswords, my other favorite hobby is taking pictures 🙂

Portugal – This was my second attempt at visiting Portugal.  I was planning a visit to Lisbon and the Azores in 2017, but after my passport and wallet were stolen (see “Burkina Faso”), I decided to fly home to Boston instead.  BUT, I did eventually make it to Lisbon a year later.  I’m not sure what I was expecting but I was overwhelmed with how much I enjoyed the city.  It reminded me so much of San Francisco, with its cable cars and steep, hilly landscape, but much, much prettier.  Red rooftops, sea views, beautiful handmade tiles on the buildings, and amazing food — I would love to go back and add Porto into the mix.

Romania – Similar to Bulgaria — I went in the winter, was super cold and snowy so I cannot report much other than I had some really good local wine and saw someone running naked down the street during a bachelor party (the rest of his party was dressed up in costumes).  Would love to visit Dracula’s castle on my next trip.

Russia – Obviously I was here before the recent war, but I cheated a bit and took the visa easy way out. Back then you could get a visa on arrival if you took the ferry from Helsinki to St. Petersburg, which I did (the only rules were you could not stay longer than 3 days, could not leave St. Petersburg and had to take the ferry back).  St. Petersburg was everything I thought it would be (amazing), and I had always dreamed of going to Russia, so it was an epic experience.  I would love to do the Trans-Siberian railroad from Moscow to Mongolia someday so would be nice if Russia would behave themselves in the near future.

San Marino – This was an easy daytrip from Bologna, Italy (train to Rimini, bus to San Marino). I really recommend it if you have some extra time in Italy. Cute, cozy, and nestled in the mountains, it’s a great place to spend the day wandering around, popping into small, local shops. Afterwards, find a restaurant, sit outside with a local beer, and enjoy the unforgettable views!

Serbia – One of my stops on the Bulgaria/Romania trip during the winter — no snow when I was there, but it was a little bit of a gritty place.  I went to Belgrade and walked A LOT – lots of churches and an impressive fortress make up the best sights in the city.

Slovakia – Bratislava was a quick trip from Vienna — the capital cities are only an hour apart, so very easy to visit both.  I rented a car (I also drove to Hallstatt on this trip – see “Austria”) and it was a nice, straightforward drive across the border.  It’s a small city but quite cute.  My favorite area of the capital was the Old Town — complete with a ton of local shops and outdoor restaurants and cafes.

Slovenia – One of my favorite European countries.  I adored Ljubljana (cobblestone streets, shopping, cafes, and a beautiful castle) and would love to spend more time around the country, visiting Bled and Portoroz as well. If you are looking for an ultimate road trip – Austria, Slovenia, Croatia, Bosnia, and Montenegro would be it!

Spain – I am super embarrassed to say this, but I have only been to Barcelona…once. It was amazing (the food…. omgggg) and I have a list of other places I want to visit in Spain (hello, Seville!) but have yet to go. I should do better 😦

Sweden – I have been to Stockholm twice (it’s lovely), but Rune and I recently went to Visby in Gotland for my birthday and let’s just say – it. was. awesome. !!!! A bit of a pain to get to, but absolutely worth it. We drove 6hrs to Stockholm then took a 3hr ferry. You can fly from Stockholm but the flights are pretty expensive. It was probably one of my favorite places in Scandinavia. We also had fantastic weather, which always helps in this part of the world!

Switzerland – One of the first European countries I have been to and have now been back a few times since (Bern, Basel, Zürich). Absolutely stunning scenery, great cheese, and chocolate (obviously), and immaculate cities. Would love to spend more time here, but when you live in Norway, you go to places that are less expensive than where you live, not more expensive. Sorry Switzerland!

Turkey – Went here with an ex — we broke up afterwards. Wouldn’t recommend. Just kidding… we went to Istanbul, cool city with a lot of history but waaay too crowded for me. Not a huge fun but probably more enjoyable with the right person 😉

Ukraine – This one is a little sad for me. I spent a few days in Kyiv and it’s really heartbreaking to see the city being bombed and attacked. I wish I had spent more time there because I may not get that opportunity again in the future. I do have great memories from my visit, and I am thankful I had the chance to at least see the city before war came knocking on its door.

United Kingdom – Have been to London a few times, around up to Scotland twice, and then to some other random places in England on the way back down.  Really enjoy Scotland, and of course, it’s one of the easiest countries for us poor, language deprived Americans to visit if you can read English (I say “read” instead of “understand” English because some of the accents there are very questionable). It’s also home to a lot of my favorite things: impressive history, Harry Potter, the English bulldog, Colin Firth, and countless literary heroes (not a favorite but worth mentioning), oh and, YNWA.

Vatican – If you have been to Rome, you have probably been to the Vatican… but if for some reason you have been to Rome and not to the Vatican, the Pope (and I) are very disappointed in you.  Even the outside of the Vatican is impressive, but what’s even more impressive is seeing the Sistine Chapel with your own eyes.

Benin – See “Togo” below for the first part of this story…….Denied a tourist visa at the border of Togo and Benin, sat for hours until they took pity on me and issued me an entry visa, spent two nights in Cotonou, got food poisoning, flew to Senegal.

Burkina Faso – Let’s see, got robbed (passport, wallet, money, and phone all taken), had to get an emergency passport at the US Embassy (was a massive pain in the ass), and ate camel for the first (and only) time. Overall, a solid representation on what NOT to do when you travel.  Side note: the police found my stolen bag in a ditch and returned it to the Embassy in Ouagadougou. The Embassy ended up sending it back to me in the US – open the bag and found my Chanel wallet there, Chanel sunglasses there, passport, and all of my credit cards.  Cash and phone were the only two things missing. 

Morocco – I met my friend Brooke here for a few days after I was travelling to Barcelona.  We had such a great time in Marrakesh until we went to the hammam.  We were basically stripped naked and put in a steamy, marble room together.  We are American, we don’t do naked, and definitely not with someone else.  As we “relaxed”, the steam dissipated, and a lady walked in.  She was there to scrub us from head to toe, and then hand wash our hair…..one at a time.  Together.  Naked.  At one point as Brooke was getting water poured on her from a wooden ladle, we made eye contact and just started laughing.  Sometimes that’s the best (and only) thing you can do when you’re naked in a room with someone.

Senegal – Had a 40,000hr layover in Dakar, no phone (stolen in Burkina Faso), no book, no stores open in the airport so literally had nothing to do.  I wandered around for many hours taking mental pictures (again, no phone, and thus no camera), went back to the airport and flew home to Boston. I imagine Senegal is a lot more enjoyable than the experience I had.

Togo – The country I never intended on visiting. My friend had the brilliant idea to buy a one-way ticket to Togo from Burkina Faso that had a stopover in Benin. We would simply disembark in Benin and save some money since it was cheaper than a one-way from Burkina Faso to Benin. Well… we got off the plane but on the bus to the terminal they checked our tickets and forced us back on the plane because we had tickets to Togo and not Benin. We caused a huge delay for the flight since my friend felt the need to argue with airline staff, the pilots, and crew (he’s a travel superstar and is the only person to visit every country in the world, TWICE), so who was I to argue? So, we did this walk of shame back on the plane with everyone hating us for causing a delay. We land in Togo and….detained at the airport on arrival for the spectacle at the airport in Benin, driven to a local police station, interrogated by the police, almost got arrested, but after many, MANY hours we were released. We then had to pay a taxi to drive us 5hrs hours back to Benin.  Good times there in Togo…

Bahrain – My country #75 and the last of the GCC countries on my list.  Three things I didn’t know about Bahrain until a few days ago: it’s an island; it’s connected to Saudi by a series of bridges (15.5 miles long in total); and its capital is Manama (I thought it was just Bahrain, oopsie).  While I would say there is less to see here than the other GCC countries, it seems more “real” than Dubai and Doha.  Less of a city to show off in and more of a place to actually live (not for me, I hate the sun and sand, but others may like it).

Israel – Went on a marketing trip here in February of this year. Politics aside – great food, people, wine, sightseeing, and history. Really enjoyed my visit and happy I was able to experience this part of the world, especially considering what is going on now.

Japan – I have been to Japan twice – Tokyo & Kyoto both times.  Tokyo is fun to see but Kyoto is the real showstopper of the two.  Both times I have been, I am always planning another trip back.  I would really recommend going to Kyoto during the shoulder season because it can get PACKED!  My first time was in December, and while it was a little chilly out, it wasn’t nearly as crowded as it was when I was there in June.  Walk through Nishiki Market in Kyoto and visit all the weird areas and cafes you can in Tokyo!  My funniest memory in Tokyo was breakfast sushi at the fish market with Jen where she guilted me into eating a giant chunk of sea urchin (I nearly vomited it up at the table) and in Kyoto when I was stopped by a class full of middle school students and quizzed on how much I knew about Japan (very little as it turns out, and they thought it was hilarious).

Kazakhstan – Interesting fact, I have been to Astana, yet Astana no longer exists. In 2019 the capital city of Astana changed its name to Nur-Sultan. This is one of the weirdest countries I have been to. It was like they decided to plop a city down in the middle of nowhere, in this massive country (top 10 in the world for size), build some strange buildings here and there, plus a giant mosque, then just decided to call it a day. Not much culture, not much history and barren tundra all around. That being said, as I mentioned, I love weird places so would probably go back.. but to Almaty, supposedly a lot cooler than Astana… oh sorry, Nur-Sultan.

Kuwait – I had some mixed feelings about visiting Kuwait.  Growing up in the 90s in the US means that the First Gulf War was in full swing and was something we heard a lot about in school throughout the years.  I didn’t really know what to expect and honestly, being that close to Iraq made me a little skittish (I don’t know why, just this weird feeling – oh and while I was here, two rockets hit the US Embassy in Baghdad – no casualties but still).  Kuwait is more conservative than all the other GCC countries, minus Saudi.  It’s a completely dry country (no alcohol at all — not even in Western hotels) and many women here are wearing full burkas.  I ended up walking about 8 miles (these cities are not built for pedestrians, so I was pretty impressed I made it that far) visiting all of the top sights.  I can honestly say I really enjoyed my two days here and was pleasantly surprised overall.  Kuwait City is a decent sized city, but not flashy at all.  It has a lot of history – past and present – and everyone I met was very nice and helpful.  Better than expected, and right behind Oman as one of my favorite places in the Middle East.

Malaysia – I had a quick meeting in Kuala Lumpur so wish I could say more about my time in Malaysia but as I was just there for 36hrs, I will leave you with this: it was humid AF and sooo much traffic in and around the city.  I was told by our office in KL that I should have gone to Borneo instead, next time I will take their advice.

Oman – LOOOOOVED it. I only had a few days that I tacked on after a work trip to Dubai, and it was not enough. Muscat is stunning and I am desperate to go back to see what’s outside the capital city. Nice people, great food (I didn’t drink alcohol when I was there, but they do serve it at Western hotels), and honestly, an overall fantastic place. Skip the UAE, come here instead!

Qatar – I was pleasantly surprised with Doha.  Most cities in the Middle East are not pedestrian friendly, which can be said about Doha as well, but the bonus in Qatar is that the Ubers are super cheap.  I ended up seeing A LOT because I could get from place to place quickly, and without spending a lot of money.  My favorite area was the Mina District – filled with colorful buildings nestled next to the water, it was the perfect place to wander and stay out of the afternoon sun.

Saudi Arabia – This was a very interesting experience for me as a woman. Saudi Arabia has been pushing the “tourism card” over the past few years, seeing what it has done in the UAE, so it’s quite easy to get a visa (online and mine was approved in like an hour) but it’s definitely not a country for everyone. I just had two days in Riyadh (would have preferred Jeddah, but did not have enough time and Saudi is a BIG country), which were….interesting. I did cover my hair and wore loose fitting, modest clothing (you don’t have to cover your hair, fyi – I just didn’t need any more attention than I would already get being a solo, female traveler), but I got some looks. I felt totally safe walking alone, no one bothered or harassed me, and I even had two ladies in full burkas approach me to ask where I was from, if I was enjoying my visit and then welcomed me to their country. I’m glad I took the time to visit and would recommend Saudi as a destination to anyone who has a desire to travel to countries well off the beaten path.

Singapore – Awesome food – chili crab, yes please! Unfortunately, I did not have the same trip as shown in Crazy Rich Asians, so that was a bit disappointing.. but I did mention the chili crab, right? I had it 3 times in 2 days.

Taiwan – I only spent a few days in Taipei but will be going back again in May.  I was pleasantly surprised with the food, people and all the shops I visited.  Everyone was very friendly, and it was very easy to get around.  I particularly enjoyed the daytrip I took to Jiufen. Excited to go back and spend more time there to get a better feel for the country.

UAE – Have just been to Dubai and it’s a very strange place. Miami and Vegas with an Arabic twist? Seeing a super city in the desert (with the tallest building in the world to boot) that has basically popped up out of nowhere to become this global destination powerhouse is pretty insane. Oh, and the amount of money in this country, also insane.

Australia – Had my first visit down under this year – a week in Melbourne for work plus a few days in Tasmania for fun. I had a really long internal debate about Sydney vs. Tasmania for my side trip and am really glad I went to Tasmania. While I did not see any Tasmanian devils when I was on the island, I did go from eating local oysters and sipping rose, to snow and nearly freezing to death on Mt. Wellington, all in one day.  Australia is diverse, ya’ll.

Barbados – One of the very first islands in the Caribbean I have been to (and also the only time I have ever been on a cruise ship).  I remember thinking how beautiful the beaches were and the water, I mean, it is literally crystal clear.  I was in college when I was there, and back then I loved the sun, so it was heavenly.  If I was there today, I’d be hiding in the shade under a palm tree with a portable fan blowing in my face.

Belize – My mom and stepdad invited me along on a trip to Belize a few years ago.  I had never been and was really excited to go.  We stayed at a small resort on the beach and had to take a very small plane to get to the town.  The colors of the water and jungle from the flight over were spectacular, same with the sunsets on the beach.  Really beautiful, relaxing destination.  We had a great time until my aluminum suitcase rolled off the bedroom balcony, landed on a coffee table below and smashed it to smithereens.

Canada – My first visit to our friendly neighbor to the North was to Montreal when I was in college (have been a few more times since), but one of the most beautiful places I have ever been to is Banff. The colors, the mountains, the views… they literally can take your breath away, eh?

Jamaica – I have been to Jamaica twice (no idea where – both times were family trips) and the first time all I remember was that we went on a visit to some waterfalls and caves with a few of the hotel staff.  We show up at this random place in the jungle, to a back entrance with a chain fence.  No entry, no actual sign of where we are.  We are all looking at each other thinking this is a terrible idea but go along anyway.  Once we get into the caves, we are told to swim around, check out the crevasses, relax and enjoy.  We left all our belongings on the side as we reluctantly climb into the water.  My stepdad was called away from us by the staff and my sisters and I were making contingency plans if one of us was to get kidnapped.  Clearly, we survived, so if someone invites you into some random caves in Jamaica, trust me, it’s legit…maybe. On my second visit we jumped off a cliff. Safety clearly is not top of mind once the Red Stripes start flowing..

Mexico – A few visits to both coasts – I overwhelmingly prefer the West (Punta Mita is quite amazing), but overall, not a massive fan. Maybe would like to see Mexico City someday but I have other places I want to visit so not in a hurry to return.

St. Lucia – Stunning island.  In my opinion it has more character and topography than most in the Caribbean, which makes it unique. Would love to go back, but it’s soooo far (and too hot).

USA – The mother and fatherland.. what can I say that hasn’t already been said a million times over about the US – it’s the best country in the world to some, not so much others.  I have been to 45 of 50 states and need to get this country wrapped up at some point!  (In case you were wondering, my missing 5 are: AK, AL, LA, MS and ND. I am going to AL in April, so down to 4).

This is embarrassing … that is all.

In conclusion……

If you made it to the end, you are either a speed reader or love travel as much as I do, so THANK YOU! And if Rune did not read all the way through, then he is dead to me, and I am currently taking applications for a new husband.

Promise to write more in 2024 as I have some really great adventures planned to some new, exciting destinations! May even make it to South America this time 😉

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